Where’s Jean Anne? (Similar to Where’s Waldo, but not as catchy!)

Well readers, I would like to say that I was away on this relaxing, fun Christmas vacation, enjoying the sunshine and sounds of the ocean while drinking a fruity concoction and watching my hubby chase our kids on the beach. Unfortunately, that is not the case.
In addition to the normal holiday stress, I traveled to my in-laws in Wisconsin, pulled a muscle in my back while sledding (insert laugh from my cousins and aunt here), and got the flu while at Fun City (not so fun).

Now I shouldn’t complain – I realize that I was very lucky to spend time with my family, but I really wanted a relaxing vacation! Work has been extremely busy (and continues to be) and the holiday travel always adds extra stress.

So I ask my fellow readers, are the holidays fun or stressful? And, as mommies, are we stuck with more of the load around this time of year? I must be fair and admit that my hubby did an amazing job stuffing, addressing, and stamping the Christmas cards this year. And he does like to wrap presents. However, the shopping, comparing, deciding what to get everyone, and making sure not to forget anyone was left to me. I think if it were left up to him, the kids would be the only ones getting gifts (well, the kids and him!!).

Where did my holiday spirit go? I used to love Christmas – picking out the perfect gifts, getting Christmas cards from friends from all over the country, and just sitting in my living room with a hot cup of cocoa and watching my decorated tree.

Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE watching my girls’ faces light up when they see what Santa has brought (although, I was informed that we do not have a chimney for Santa and that this must be corrected!). And the excitement the night before, putting out reindeer food and cookies for Santa just makes me feel young again. No thank you card can top that look of pure joy on Christmas morning.

But this year, while sitting in my car on the way to another store, I lost that spirit. I just couldn’t find “the” gift for family members. And I want to find that “it” gift for everyone; something that brings that smile to both my friend or family member’s eyes and face.

And before my mother-in-law calls and lectures me on the “true meaning” of the season, I am not saying that Christmas is all about presents, Santa, cards, etc. But I do think it is about that special, warm feeling you get when spending time with family and friends. And this year, I missed that.

So what does this mean? More resolutions for next blog…

Thanks for letting me vent. And I hope that everyone had a wonderful, relaxing holiday season (and a couple of fruity concoctions!).
Jean Anne

Home for the Holidays? Not Likely...

It's holiday time - YAY!!  It is time for Santa, Jolly Holiday Lights, Christmas cheer, good will towards men (and women), and (you have read from Mandi's earlier post) stress for moms.  In addition to shopping for just the right present and trying not to eat all of the yummy treats at work, I have (like many of you) the stress of traveling to see family for the holidays.  On Wisconsin...

Even when I was very young, I realized that I was extremely lucky around the holidays.  We have a very small family and everyone gathered in one location for Christmas.  My Grandma Z always came to our house and was welcome at my Grandma and Grandpa F's house for Christmas dinner.  My aunt and uncle and cousins were always there (typically after a long morning of travel) and we enjoyed spending the whole day together.  My mom always had "the best turkey ever" and there was more food then you could imagine.  Sure, there was the typical family squabbles and too much pie, but I couldn't have asked for more perfect family togetherness. 

Unfortunately, times change.  My family lives in different states and getting together over the holidays is almost impossible given school and work schedules, distance and other family obligations.  Plus, when you get married and have kids, you have a whole other family to please.  And well, my in-laws...Remember that saying "If you don't have anything nice to say..."  I am keeping my mouth shut!

So when I had A & B, my hubby and I decided to make sure that our girls always woke up in their own beds, and Santa always knows where to land.  Plus, both hubby and I grew up with this tradition.  Now, for those of you who know me, this was a little selfish on my part, as it meant we would always see my parents for Christmas (they only live 2 miles down the road).  But it does mean scheduling travel to see my in-laws. 

So Christmas afternoon, we will again make the trip to Wisconsin.  And in addition to the stress of Christmas cards, shopping, wrapping and work; I will also be doubling up on the laundry, packing and stressing out over our travels.  And don't even get me started about my in-laws' Christmas lists...

So whether this Christmas finds you on the road or snuggling by the fireplace, stay warm, keep happy thoughts in your heart, and enjoy some holiday treats.  I wish all of you the best! 

Jean Anne

What I Am Thankful For...

Yes folks, it is that time of year when we take time out to list out what we are thankful for.  Granted, we should do this more often (similar to the count your blessings theme) but, as we all know, kids, work, dishes, errands, etc. get in the way.  To give you a little idea, here is what A &B are thankful for:

A: My grandma and grandpa, mama and Jetta
B: My mommy and daddy and Jetta dog

It really is that simple for them.  Although, I do know that hubby will be a little hurt that A did not include him (he is off deer hunting, and she is a little unhappy she didn't get to go).  As for me, well, this took a little more thought:

1. My children - I honestly don't know what I would do without them.  They make me crazy some times, but when they laugh, smile and tell me that I am their best friend and they love me, it makes me realize I am the luckiest person in the world.
2. My hubby - yes, he makes me crazy most of the time too, but I he is my constant.  Things may get crazy for us, but we are a team.
3. My parents - I am a spoiled rotten only child, so you know they are included :)!  They still take care of me AND spoil A & B rotten now!
4. My family - without them, I would not be the person I am today.  I just wish we could all be together more often!
5. My best friend - she knows me better than anyone else.  And still loves me!  I know that when we are 60 and still looking fabulous, we will still be laughing about our dancing skills!
6. The Fab Four - best friends forever!  Now, if we could all be in the same state again.
7. My job - in current times, I know how lucky I am to have a job.  And one where my boss appreciates my hard work AND understands the need for family time.  Amazing!
8. A house over my head. 
9. Health (for everyone close to me)
10. A positive attitude
11. Caring friends
12. Great teachers at daycare and preschool
13. Good neighbors
14. My guardian angels
15. Second chances

Ok - I am sure there are more, but for now, I am lost in happy memories.  Please take the time out to reflect on what you are thankful for.  I hope everyone has a very Happy Thanksgiving! 

Jean Anne